Social media users agreed that while the wife’s humiliating act was entertaining, it doesn’t address the issue of his cheating. They're just girls - pretty, cute, fun, tricky, flirty, lively, and maybe a little silly sometimes. Read the FAQ before posting. I’d actually been researching confidence all day. Cursed Judge here in clutch with another le reddit video. Enter college, male students staring during lecture, professors and GSIs being extra friendly, you get grades you know you didn't really deserve, invited to parties by people you barely know, told you're beautiful by random people on the street. A bit childish is cute, fe. That is definitely a cheat code. Mona never forgot the way Alison had treated her, labeling her as an outsider and a dork. Emotionally abusive. I will def look into that book, thank you for sharing. It is my personal opinion that Jennifer is basic and bland, not someone I would think of as pretty if I saw her in the street. Liking stuff she liked as a kid or finding enjoyment in kids stuff is fine. Uptight. I’m saying the same thing but in less colorful language. Believe me, you can be confident, charming and witty and guys/ the general public will not pay you attention if you are plain. childlike naivete ... is dumb. I’ve literally been trying all those things, that’s so fucking funny. On December 25, 2011 (Christmas Day), GoDaddy lost a net 16,191 domains as a result of the boycott. I’m finally doing it. Pretty much the same thing I find intimidating by other men." Awesome! It's not a turn on in any way, but not a turn off either. I can date someone like you/I can be like you!”. Reddit users noted that by December 22, 2011, SOPA supporters were discovering the backlash that could arise from ignoring social media users. Some people are going to find her attractive, some aren't. Yes, people around you want to see you happy and comfortable! Never occurred to me. 1. I'm always wary of girls who are really into the princess thing though... childlike exuberance is cute. This explains so much... confidence is a brand new concept to me. Yes, especially because people are trying to make eye contact with you! But as he says, working out is really about taking pride in one's appearance. Do any of you guys prefer women who act like that? My mom still does it from time to time when I'm home for the holidays, and I have to remind her that I'm not a kid anymore. He's also clearly showing that he doesn't have dating double standards because he maintains his body and values this act of self-love in a partner, too. All the Botox in the world can’t get you that kind of it factor ‍♀️. Jen’s physical/grooming/fashion comportment is what opens the door to let her bubbly/confident/funny side shine through. I prefer grown-up women not women acting like children. I imagine it might include smiling, looking people in the eye, and wearing jewelry and stylish clothing. Petty behavior at work can be annoying at best and damaging at worst. Cookies help us deliver our Services. So there's a rule: You say sorry three times and then just nod and smile. Society kinda plays up the whole idea that men should be strong protectors, and sometimes it's fun to just sort of play along. The u/Pretty-Act2158 community on Reddit. 4. I’ve always thought of Liv Tyler as being in this category I mentioned. I feel ya there. Is it cute, sexy, or creepy? Most people don’t measure up. (Yes, that's a real style. I don't think you can make any real conclusions; the behaviour under discussion is too varied. Find communities you're interested in, and become part of an online community! Whether or not it's cute depends on what 'acting childish' entails: wearing a sundress with a ponytail tied with a bow, cute. Not my thing! If she wants the drink to be juice, preferably in a sippy cup, then uh...yeah. And if well done, they are all pretty good; if over the top then it can get creepy fast. Reddit is a network of communities based on people's interests. My view is that there's a lot of different archetypes around (cool and professional, femme fatale, bimbo, princess, goth, whatever), and most women will present as some mixture of one or more at some time or other. Speak in a deep, slow voice like a movie villain. If seems a little embarrassed, unsure of how to act and her face appears a little red, then she probably likes you. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. -and either heartbreaking, enraging or contemptuous depending on the level of one's personal connection ... childlike put ons ... can be grating but people who are grating about finding an aesthetic choice grating would probably not be a good choice for anyone. I am not attracted to my niece. They’re gorgeous, well-styled women, but they also act kinda ditzy/make dumb mistakes which makes them more attainable/normal/charming. Is she supposed to hang her head low, stop taking care of herself, and become antisocial because someone thinks she's plain? I'm talking about 16-26 year old women/girls who like Disney clothes, bows, frilly clothes, etc. Apparently somewhat fashionable right now? Normal being she watched disney as a kid. Define tough. You will be perceived the same way you feel about yourself, if you are insecure it shows in body language, mannerisms, speech, etc. But again, only up to a point. How to Deal With Petty Coworkers. That, and actually expecting the world to treat em like a Disney princess, but luckily I haven't run into that yet. Beauty can draw people in but charm, intelligence and charisma adds the kind of substance that people pick up on. How do you feel about girls who act kind of childish? If she acts as though she's still a child then it's weird. Again, Virgos are pretty set in their ways and are not easily convinced to try something new. Should you speak? She was bullied by Alison, who told everyone she was nothing and treated her like she was invisible. To act like an evil person, pretend that you’re selfish and hate everyone else. What is it that she and others in this category “do” to create their own unique beauty and allure? Jennifer is graceful, glows, has piercing eyes and is just unbelievably charming and lokeable. How do you think "basic and bland" people should behave? I'm talking about 16-26 year old women/girls who like Disney clothes, bows, frilly clothes, etc. Without me to lead, others would flounder. Stared at often. Depends on what you’re going for. If you are emotionally or mentally weak, prison will destroy you and no one will recognize you when you get out. Maybe also being slightly aloof or having excellent manners? It feels nice too. Jennifer Aniston takes care of her body and exudes confidence because she likes herself. Here are seven things the studies found. anything else is justifiable or doesn't matter. To rephrase this, I think "cute" generally refers to more childish features (round-face as you pointed out, but maybe also bigger eyes, small button-nose etc. Your hair is one of the first things people will notice about you, so take a few minutes each morning to style it. She has an “open” body language and “catwalk posture” eg: if you like stuffed animals, that's fine, as long as you know they aren't alive, etc... a woman should want to protect and uplift cute things. She resorted to playing with dolls since she didn't many any friends left due to Alison's bullying. Also literally all the things you mentioned is how I was brought up to be and see my self and how I’ve lived my life up till now, down to the bowed head. Very childish girls are just that - girls. The "I widdle nd cute like a 2 year old" So fucking irritating. jamariaberry@gmail.com on March 30, 2017: i need to be a girly girl right now in a month at least thats my goal. 8. Enjoy children's activities and the things that innocent people enjoy. Overthinking and worrying are classic Virgo traits. As long as she doesn't act like a child, I'm okay with it. Press J to jump to the feed. whether she is 2, 22 or 82, there is something laudable about being excited about life. And youth is generally associated with fertility and attractiveness, so there's that. Someone on here mentioned how Jennifer Aniston is treated like she’s pretty because she “acts pretty” and surely feels pretty. I never saw confidence growing up and it was def not encouraged. Avery, who I have in fact never seen since, told me that the very act of asking the question suggests that I am indeed a good person. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. I feel like women like this are almost always very smart and self aware, they have an almost dancer-like awareness of their bodies, even if they use that awareness to create a casual, slouched look, they are doing it intentionally. Does it ever make you feel like a paedo? 5. Posts with questions that are easily answered by the FAQ or Google may be removed. Follow the reddiquette and rules of reddit.Be nice. Although I think my cutoff point might be a lot higher than OP; I don't see anything wrong with sleeping with a stuffed animal, or being really into animals or whatever. I feel like everyone on here uses terms that are very useful, but new to me, to describe features that essentially make you bland and basic. Every time I see that it makes me feel extremely awkward. I enjoy the company of people who are comfortable enough with themselves to not be serious all the time. Should you make yourself comfortable? Numerous studies indicate that a woman's presence can change a dude's behavior in some pretty insane ways. Your title should be descriptive, informative, and on-topic. And there are lots of them. This is stuff she was drilled on from a young age and has (or maybe had, at this point) a fair amount of insecurity about. Having confidence. ), whereas "beautiful" or "pretty" refers to more mature features (longer nose, defined cheeks, sharper … Liv Tyler wrote a book on etiquette that's very informative, if a little dry. Accented with inch long stiletto nails? Reports up to December 29 described GoDaddy as "hemorrhaging" customers. Staying fully hydrated will make you look better by … A slinky black dress, some pale makeup and dark red lipstick? I educate myself with books daily and I … Initially she’s iite, but a second look and theres a mystery there. She softmaxxes to an airtight degree. I think Jennifer Aniston’s pretty is different than Audrey Hepburn’s pretty or Gina Torres’s pretty. She exudes confidence, joy, and peace because she likes herself. Thanks for sharing. SJP is one of these people too. I’ve never felt free to express myself. A cute frilly dress and a bow in the hair can be super attractive, and if she wants to make a joke about her parents telling her not to talk to strangers while you're taking her back to your place for a drink, all the better. not everyone wants a dominatrix ice queen. I do always wonder whether the women I admire know the enchantment they are casting, it sounds like they do. Not all of them will like you, but enough of them will. They’re gorgeous but can also be relatable, so they are nice to look at but they make people feel good because “hey, you’re human just like me! She acts pretty because she believes she is pretty and doesn't let opinions like the one expressed here bring her down. Our hijabs act like a pair of ear muffs, which means we sometimes can't hear you. Also interesting that it’s about manners. Each of us, to some degree, is susceptible to petty behavior toward others. So yeah, I guess my vote is "cute up to a point, then not so much". So you’ll want to get a baseline of how she acts around other people before you assume her blushing is unique towards you. Rules. It won't matter one bit how physically tough you are. This is something she’s talked about in interviews and memoirs — she had a rough estranged relationship with her mom, who was a former model and a perfectionist and really harsh on Jen about her appearance. It is that foreign to me, like, I have to laugh. Behaving like a child is not. Wow it’s interesting that you think many captivating women are aware and performing (I say this in the “you’re born, and the rest is drag” sense which I very much respect). IMO nobody would be looking twice at her “pretty personality” charisma if she was a shlub. I'm sure you mean well, but this post bothers me. Can cope with the low end of it. I agree with all the other comments about her personality, but have to underline — she’s working off of a very specific physical base. They're not these devious, scheming creatures who must be overcome. Bridge too far, I fear. I have learned to accept compliments, but really I wanted to work on my mind. Exactly! If you want to feel and look pretty, wear clean, unwrinkled clothes that make you feel good about your body. Or is it a turnoff? This is a ground breaking idea to me. She was even nicknamed \"Loser Mona\" by Alison and called that by the entire school. Jennifer Aniston and SJP are always amazing in interviews because they’re so full of wit and sparkle. I literally never thought deeply about confidence until today. This Reddit user is open about why he prefers fit women. Baby voice/ acting like a brat, leave. Press J to jump to the feed. I would generally say cute, but that I feel creepy myself for finding it cute. Here's how to do it ya hack. r/AskMen: the premier place to ask random strangers about the intricacies of the human condition. - It’s that kind of thinking that exudes confidence. I think she likely draws the attention of whatever room she’s in. And for anyone that’s confused as to what that could mean - it’s knowing that even if you don’t “belong” in a space, you’ll be accepted and appreciated. If she likes Disney or stuffed toys, that's cool. So yeah, a lot of guys do love that cute, innocent little princess style. Depends on what kind of person you are and who you want to be. Just don't be an asshole about it. However, some girls blush quite easily. I have trouble containing anger and controlling my mood in general, but I’ve been trying to be kinder to myself and everyone because life is awful manifesting as better manners. And that's all you need. People kept telling me I was pretty. To find new friends, try and talk to new people at your school, your work, your church or other places of worship, or through a youth group. Try to understand how they see the world and try to learn from them. Far end of this spectrum is girls who sleep with stuffed animals and want to open a puppy farm, low end of the spectrum is girls who wear Princess Jasmine pullovers. I think the allure of those two women are their looks, bubbly personality, and their “authenticity”, based off the characters they play. Should you look around your surroundings? Tap to play or pause GIF patheos.com. By using our Services or clicking I agree, you agree to our use of cookies. What "pretty" is, is something that you will have to decide for yourself, regardless of what you see or hear from the media and other people. Drink at least 8 cups (1,900 ml) of water a day. It's creepy because it makes me feel like I'm dating a child and it's annoying because it frequently puts the partner in the 'tribal leader/provider/active party' role when they may not want to be. Wouldn’t let her leave the house without “putting her face on”, etc. So many people here seem to think that women who aren't models need to be insecure or they're cheating the system. Yes! Depends on how connected she is to real world. I countered that I felt the exact opposite was true. I love watching Disney movies with my SO, but acting like princess would drive me crazy. I love to wear pretty dresses like a 6-7 and my cousin dress is very pretty I feel company sending it in I love them more than anything too makes me feel good when you but you were nice pretty dress with no stockings beautiful panties. You can also work on your evil laugh for whenever other people suffer or … I think you took OP’s post the wrong way but I do agree 100% with what you said, Press J to jump to the feed. There is no cheat code, no tips or magic to be had here. And yet I see the appeal and can sometimes see the prettiness she creates with her personality. I do myself. This guy's on Reddit finds it intimidating if a girl has more money or is more intelligent than him, and that probably makes more sense than most things on this list. ps: a girl with jasmine pullovers would probably be ok with my childish hobbies. Interesting question. Basically, the magic to these women’s appeal lies outside their objective “base line” beauty, and in all their other attributes and the ways they highlight what they do have. Thanks for confirming that I’m heading in the right direction. Turnoff. Her fitness is flawless, posture great, her hair/grooming/fashion is on point of the time. I have no problem with girls who constantly sing disney songs because that means that I can sing with them, but weaving their whole personality around girly things creeps me out a bit. This is spot on. In addition to your outfit, be sure to shower every 1-2 days to keep your skin clean and smelling good. Creepy being she believes she is a real disney princess. Acting pretty, can change how people perceive you yes, and make people notice you, but only when you are actually quite pretty by society's standards. Spend time with kids and interact with them to see how they act. As long as they don't do the fucking baby voice. I also agree that the OP means no ill will but heaven forbid a ~non-model~ woman exude confidence and joy. Far end of this spectrum is girls who sleep with stuffed animals and want to open a puppy farm, low end of the spectrum is girls who wear Princess Jasmine pullovers. Edit: I was surprised that you described Jennifer as basic and bland, because while her looks are average I think most people would agree that she has a certain star factor, and would not be considered basic by most. Plenty of women do, even "regular" non-famous ones. I still watch anime, play magic/pokemon, enjoy Disney movies (Big Hero 6 was great) and love doing that stuff together, just don't use the baby voice. Comparatively, anyhow.). You say it like it’s obvious, but it’s not. Everyone has enviable features, whether they recognize it or not, and what makes you different may in reality be what makes you most beautiful. They also run the risk of being critical about others' choices when they're not the Virgo's first choice. Reddit gives you the best of the internet in one place. Men on Reddit have been furiously adding to an Ask Men thread entitled: ‘What is something women think makes them more attractive to men while men think it … So much so, that Mona herself began to believe it. … I feel like it must go beyond just acting traditionally feminine. A WOMAN was caught allegedly performing a sex act on a man on the London Underground in the middle of the day in front of horrified key workers during the coronavirus lockdown. 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